Boost leak test kits are online to buy or you can try to make your own. You block off the charge pipe going to the intake manifold and you block off certain ports on the turbo inlet pipe and add pressure through an compressed air hose and fill it to a certain psi and see if it holds.
You say your dropping to 5psi, do you have a boost gauge to confirm that? and whats your peak boost when it hits limp mode? and what tune are you running, since you stated the car is setup to have a 3" downpipe in the tune.
Bypass the n249 by running a vacuum hose from the intake manifold to the DV and plug the vacuum line going to the DV from that little vacuum reservoir on the valve cover.. I would also test your DV by pressing the diaphram in and plugging the vacuum port. If the DV doesn't hold, then it has a tear and needs to be replaced.
You say your dropping to 5psi, do you have a boost gauge to confirm that? and whats your peak boost when it hits limp mode? and what tune are you running, since you stated the car is setup to have a 3" downpipe in the tune.
Bypass the n249 by running a vacuum hose from the intake manifold to the DV and plug the vacuum line going to the DV from that little vacuum reservoir on the valve cover.. I would also test your DV by pressing the diaphram in and plugging the vacuum port. If the DV doesn't hold, then it has a tear and needs to be replaced.