This can vary depending on what dealership you go to....
For example, I have been to two separate dealerships for service (some routine and some not). One near my house (Santa Barbara VW) and one near my work (Nefftin VW in Thousand Oaks). The dealership in Santa Barbara has been amazingly helpful in everything I have brought to them; whereas Nefftin has a different attitude towards what I bring to their attention. Both have helpful sales and I have had no problems with them (bought my car at Nefftin). On the other hand, I visited Sunnyvale VW (a bit north of me) and their sales team was extremely annoying and unhelpful. It's almost luck of the draw...
This has been the same with all other makes of cars I have been involved with (Ford, Chevy, etc). I would see if there are other VW dealerships in your area (or within a reasonable distance) and see how they are.